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2023-12-18⏰✍
18 December 2023
Efforts to create the strength, attitude determines altitude.
努力造就实力,态度决定高度。
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深度自信的人的7个好习惯
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7 Habits of Highly Confident People
深度自信的人7个习惯
Confidence is crucial to a happy and fulfilling life. It influences your success in leadership, how you engage with your team, and at work in general. It influences how you build your business, how you are in your family life, relationships and leisure activities. The list goes on. Confidence affects your performance and who you are in all you do.
自信对于一个快乐和令人满意的生活是至关重要的。一般在工作中,自信会影响到你的领导力,影响到你怎么与团队相处。它也会关系到你的事业,你的家庭生活,你的人际关系和你的业余活动。自信会在你的表现和你所有做的事情中起作用。
If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavours to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours.——Henry David Thoreau
梭罗说过,一个人如果果自信的朝前追梦,并且竭尽全力过他想要的生活,他就会与成功不期而遇。
#1 主动承担个人责任(Accepting personal responsibility)
Habit 1 is accepting personal responsibility. Confident people accept responsibility for their lives, their decisions, and their behaviours. Confident people understand that they may not always have control over what happens in their lives but they do have control over their responses. They take responsibility for how they respond to life.
自信的人会为他们的生活、他们的每一个决定和行为负责。自信的人知道他们不能完全控制他们生活发生的事情,但是他们完全控制在事情发生的时候自己的反应,他们会为此负责。
#2 敢于行动,即使会害怕(Act in spite of their fears)
Confident people act in spite of their fears. That’s what courage is. We all have fears – fear of failure, fear of not measuring up, fear of appearing stupid. It’s part of the human condition. We all like to succeed, don’t we? I know I do. And yet, it is the fear of failure that keeps many people from living fully, from claiming their personal power. Confident people are willing to step out of their comfort zone and give their best shot to something new, in spite of their anxieties or fears.
自信的人敢于行动,尽管会害怕。这就是他们的勇气所在。每个人都会害怕,害怕失败,害怕不合格,害怕显得很蠢。这是人天性的一部分。人人都喜欢成功,不是吗?还有,也正是因为害怕失败让很多人不能活得很充实,不能发挥自己的能力。自信的人愿意走出“舒适区”,尽最大的努力去尝试一些新东西,尽管心存焦虑或者恐惧。
#3 忍让别人(Tolerance for others)
Tolerance for others is the 3rd habit of confident people. We all lose our patience with friends, families, and even strangers at one time or another. But the confident person values others and instead of being put off by their errors confident people are willing to lend support, give constructive feedback, or sometimes just give another person a hand up.
我们偶尔会对朋友、家人甚至陌生人失去耐心。但是自信的人会重视别人,不会因为别人的错误搪塞过去的,反而他们愿意提供支持,给出建设性的反馈,有时还会支持给别人。
#4 立即承认和赞赏别人(quick to give praise and recognition to others)
The 4th habit of confident people is that they are quick to give praise and recognition to others. Confident people don’t take all the credit. They willingly share the credit. Confident people recognise that rarely does
something positive happen based solely on one person’s efforts. They appreciate those that are often behind the scenes.
自信的人不会把一切都功劳都算在自己头上。他们愿意与别人分享,极少承认一些事情是一个人的功劳。他们欣赏那些经常处于幕后的人。
#5 为成功和获得认可感到自豪(Be proud of a job well done and accepting of recognition)
Habit number 5 may sound a little contradictory on the heels of habit 4 Confident people are proud of a job well done and accepting of recognition. This does not mean that confident people are boastful – in fact, boasting is a sure sign of lack of confidence. No, what this means is that confident people accept recognition and praise for a job well done, an effort well made, and a success well earned. They do with a heartfelt and engaging, “Thank you.”
自信的人为自己的成功和获得认可感到自豪。这个并不意味着自信的人爱炫耀——事实是,爱炫耀正是缺乏自信心的表现。自信的人非常确定他们获得任何和表扬,恰恰是因为他们工作干得好,他们付出了努力,他们获得了应得的成功。他们是发自内心是真心实意在说一声:“谢谢”。
#6 有明确的目标(Have goals)
The 6th habit of confident people is that they have goals. Confident people realise that life is a work in progress and that opportunities abound for success and self-fulfillment. Confident people are not afraid to set goals, make plans and then take steps to reach their goals. They also understand there will be some challenges and setbacks, and adjustments will have to be made. They are constantly re-evaluating and adjusting to get to where they want to go.
自信的人明白生活就像一项进行的工作,成功和自我实现的机会无处不在。他们敢于设定自己的目标,制定自己计划,然后一步步去实现这个目标。他们知道会遇到挑战和障碍,必须做一些调整。所以他们一直评估自己,调整自己以达到自己的目标。
#7 敢于亮出自己的立场(are not afraid to stand for something)
The 7th confidence habit is this. Confident people are not afraid to stand for something. They understand that values are tested at every turn of life, but confident people place their beliefs above their need to be liked by everyone. Of course, it’s nice to be liked by everyone, but the reality is that staying true to our beliefs and values is not always the popular decision. Confident people are generally willing to compromise, but not their values. And that is one of the main reasons that we respect people with confidence.
自信的人知道在人生每一次转折点的时候都会受到考验,但是相比左右逢源他们更看重价值观。当然,被每个人喜欢是一件很爽的事情,但是实际上坚持自己的信念和价值观往往不总是受欢迎。自信的人愿意妥协,但不是妥协他们的价值观。这也正是我们尊重有自信心的人的主要原因。
Are you being held back because of lack of confidence?
你是否因为缺乏自信而停滞不前呢?
Make 2024 the year you express who you truly are and pursue your heart's desire without restriction set by others or yourself.
在2024年,开始做自己吧,追求自己内心的渴望,不被别人左右也不被自己束缚。
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基础的英语口语句子:
1. Where shall we go? 我们应该去哪?
2. It is five o'clock. 现在五点了。
3. Who told you? 谁告诉你的?
4. He has gone out. 他出去了。
5. Are you unwell? 你不舒服吗?
6. Must I open this? 我必须打开这个吗?
7. The bigger one. 大些的那个。
8. What do you prefer? 你更喜欢哪个?
9. Let me see them. 让我看看他们。
10. You're very eloquent. 你总是说话得体。
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⏰I don't regret the things I've done, I regret the things I didn't do when I had the chance. 我不后悔我做过的事,我只是后悔有些事我有机会做的时候,我却没有做。
⏰So many people just wait for things to happen, but never fight for it! 在生活中有太多人只是一味地等待,而不去争取。
⏰Don't be afraid of change. You may lose something good, but you will probably get something better.别害怕改变,最终也许你会失去一些很好的东西,但很有可能你会得到一些更好的。
⏰When in doubt, just take the next small step. 当你坚持不下去的时候,再坚持一会儿。
⏰Don't let your fears win. 别让恐惧战胜了你。
⏰Life is short. Smile while you still have teeth.生命短暂,趁牙齿没掉光的时候多笑一笑吧。