真正优秀的家庭,都是几代人的“接力赛式”努力,而绝大多数百姓的家庭是根本不懂这个规矩的,现实生活中我们经常看到很多人家,他们的子弟稍微有点出息,便自傲地认为是自己的个人本事,从而很容易得意忘形,将祖上叮嘱、遗训忘于脑后,将别人施予的恩德抹*,轻易改变家庭“接力赛”的规则,导致下一代又在社会上稀里糊涂痛苦摸索半生。
不是北京的户口厉害,而是厉害的父母都努力落户北京了,然后让自己的孩子有更高的起点。你以为是一张试卷决定的不公平,人家认为是靠两代、三代人的努力才换来的优势。清北那5200多人里,没几个籍贯是北京的,父母大多来自全国各地。
Truly excellent families rely on the "relay race" efforts of several generations, and the vast majority of ordinary people's families do not understand this rule at all. In real life, we often see many families where their children, with a little bit of success, arrogantly consider it their own personal responsibility, making it easy for them to become complacent and forget their ancestors' advice and teachings, and to erase the kindness bestowed on them by others, Easily changing the rules of the family "relay race" leads to the next generation being confused and struggling in society for half their lives.
It's not that Beijing's household registration is strong, but that parents who are strong have made efforts to settle in Beijing and make their children have a higher starting point. You think it's unfair to decide on a test paper, but others believe it's an advantage gained through the efforts of two or three generations. Of the over 5200 people in the northern part of the Qing Dynasty, few come from Beijing, and most of their parents come from all over the country.
即使你拥有一个富裕的家庭,或是一副强劲的体魄,亦或一颗聪颖的头脑,但想获得真正的成功,依然必须全力以赴。
Even if you are born into a rich family, or with a smart mind or a strong body, you still have to work hard to truly succeed and reach your potential.
一个精英的养成,也绝不仅仅只是智商高,考高分。
良好的性格,广博的见闻,开阔的视野,以及心无旁骛的钻研精神,都是建立在良好的家庭条件基础上的。
The cultivation of an elite is not just about high intelligence and high scores in exams.
A good personality, extensive knowledge, broad vision, and a focus on research are all built on good family conditions.
一个好的家族的传承,不在于有多殷实富贵,而是每一辈都竭尽所能,去托举下一代更上一层楼。
做父母的,应该用自己的实际行动,去影响孩子的精神世界,帮他点燃生命的动力,放飞成长的翅膀。
The inheritance of a good family
is not how rich and rich it is, but that each generation does its best to promote the next generation to a higher level.
Parents should use their own practical actions to influence their children's spiritual world, help them ignite the power of life and fly the wings of growth.