十三、为值得的人赴汤蹈火,对闲杂人等别在乎太多。如此,你的善良才显矜贵。
Go through fire and water for the worthwhile, don't care too much about the idle and miscellaneous people. In this way, your kindness is noble.
十四、等不起的人就不要等了,你的痴情感动不了一个不爱你的人。伤害你的不是对方的绝情,而是你心存幻想的坚持。
Don't wait for someone who can't afford it. You can't move a person who doesn't love you. What hurts you is not the desperation of the other person, but the perseverance of your fantasy.
十五、与人相处:你尊重我,我就尊重你,你无视我,我就无视你,就这么简单!别惯坏了不知领情的人;别喂饱了不懂回馈的心。
Getting along with others: If you respect me, I respect you. If you ignore me, I ignore you. It's so simple! Don't spoil people who don't understand; don't feed people who don't know how to give back.
十六、既然无法言说,不如一笑而过;既然无法释怀,不如安然自若。
If you can't speak, you'd better laugh; if you can't let go, you'd better be at ease.
十七、对别人生气1分钟,就失去了自己人生中60秒的快乐。所以我们要学着没心没肺,对什么事都渐渐的无所谓。
If you are angry with others for one minute, you will lose 60 seconds of happiness in your life. So we have to learn to be heartless and heartless. It doesn't matter what happens.
十八、不爱理你的人,就别去打扰了,赔了笑又丢了尊严,不合适的鞋,就别去硬塞了,磨了自己的脚,还留下一堆血泡。
If you don't care about your people, don't bother, laugh and lose dignity. If you don't have the right shoes, don't jam them, rub your feet and leave a bunch of blood bubbles.
十九、有人心疼时,眼泪才是眼泪,否则只是带着咸味的体液;被人呵护着,撒娇才是撒娇,要不然就是作死。
When someone is distressed, tears are tears, otherwise they are only salty body fluid; when they are cared for, they are spoiled, or they are killed.
二十、走错了路,要记得回头;看错了人,要懂得放手。谁都不傻,谁也不笨,用眼看人,会走眼,用心感受,才是真。
If you go the wrong way, remember to look back; if you see the wrong person, you should know how to let go. Nobody is silly, nobody is silly. It is true to look at people with eyes, walk with eyes and feel with heart.
二十一、人生是一本书,封面是父母给的,内容是自己写的,厚度由本人决定,精彩程度可以自己创造。
Life is a book, the cover is given by parents, the content is written by oneself, the thickness is decided by oneself, the magnificence can be created by oneself.
二十二、有人感激过你的善良吗,他们除了得寸进尺还是得寸进尺吧。记住,你的善良,一定要有点儿锋芒。
Has anyone ever thanked you for your kindness? They have to go in every inch except for every inch. Remember, your kindness must be a bit sharp.
二十三、世人贪婪,总想寻找两全,但这世间难有什么两全之策。人生百年,不过是教人如何取舍。
The world is greedy and always wants to find two ways, but there is no way to achieve two ways in the world. Life is a hundred years, but teaching people how to choose.
二十四、别人再好,也是别人,自己再不堪,也是自己。你很平凡,但你独一无二。愿每个姑娘都能精致到老,眼里长着太阳,笑里全是坦荡。
No matter how good others are, they are others, and they are themselves. You are ordinary, but you are unique. May every girl be delicate to old age, with the sun in her eyes and open laughter in her eyes.