十七、有时候你以为天塌下来了，其实是自己站歪了。留在彼此的好友名单里却不再说一句话，这是我们最后的默契。其实，我想要的很简单，在这个熟悉又很陌生的城市里，能有一份家的温暖。人生中，最温馨的时刻，莫过于有家人，亲朋好友的陪伴，有家便有暖。这个世界的问题是，笨蛋都充满了自信，而聪明人反而总是怀疑自己。Sometimes you think the sky has fallen down, but you stand askew. It's our last tacit understanding to stay on each other's list of friends and not say a word. In fact, I want very simple, in this familiar and very strange city, can have a warm home. In life, the warmest moment is to have family members, friends and relatives accompanied by home will be warm. The problem with the world is that fools are full of self-confidence, while smart people are always suspicious of themselves.
十八、我想过做个不走近岁月的世界，孤独的微笑，孤单的走路，看着大人的冷眼，错误自己的付出，不用思考，不用面对当下的很多，不费力气的吃喝穿衣，不用走太多的路，可是时间走了，锁走了我人生的不知，带来了心中的得知，分得很清楚，擦去的很快，有了落痕，有了追忆，断去的断去，离开的离开，看见的远了，等不来的却很近了。I thought about being a world not approaching the years, a lonely smile, a lonely walk, looking at adults'cold eyes, making mistakes in their own efforts, not thinking, not facing the current many, not trying to eat, drink and dress, not walking too much, but time has gone, locked away my life's ignorance, brought the heart to know, clearly divided, erased quickly, with Falling marks, with memories, broken off, leaving, see far away, but can not wait for it is very close.
十九、“如约而至”是个多么美好的词，等的辛苦，却从不辜负。价值产生信心，信心产生热忱，而热忱则征服世界。不是我不联系你，而是你给我的感觉像是我在打扰你。 我要有能做我自己的自由，和敢做我自己的胆量。——林语堂《我的愿望》What a beautiful word "come as you promised", waiting for the hard work, but never live up to it. Value produces confidence, confidence produces enthusiasm, and enthusiasm conquers the world. It's not that I don't contact you, but that you give me the feeling that I'm bothering you. I want to have the freedom to be myself and the courage to be myself. —— Lin Yutang's "My Wish"
二十、十年前，你周围的人会根据你父母的收入对待你。十年后，你周围的人会根据你的收入对待你的父母和你的孩子！这就是人性和人生，除了努力别无选择。人一辈子，你得信这一条：留得住的不需用力，留不住的不需费力。来去随缘，强求不得。Ten years ago, people around you would treat you according to your parents'income. Ten years later, people around you will treat your parents and your children according to your income! This is human nature and life. There is no choice but to work hard. Throughout your life, you have to believe this rule: you don't have to work hard to keep it, you don't have to work hard to keep it. Come and go as you please, but you can't force it.
